Unlocking the Power of Inner Gold in Love and Life

May Psychic Ezine

The Spiritual Journey of Love and Projection

In order to grab our attention, after having tried rather unsuccessfully many other tools at its disposal like dreams: Our unconscious self will project a newly discovered inner gold part of ourselves, onto a likely candidate especially suited to receive the projection. Seemingly instantly, we are consumed by every new little thing we discover about that person. Shocked at how much we are alike, how much we have in common. We must be soul bonded! Destined to meet and all that.

Projecting Our New-Found Inner Gold

We might call them a guru, mentor, teacher, guide or…yikes… a lover. At some point, we will absolutely know we were lost in an illusion. The full monte is yet to come.

While we are celebrating the magnificent, fantastic, astounding things we attribute to the other person, we are witnessing for the first time, our own inner, dark depth and meaning. Our inner gold has become too unwieldly for us to embrace, therefore we must assign someone else to carry it for us. For a while. Over months and years, we’ll gain enough psychic strength to carry the load of our magnificence ourselves. We’ll happily take it back from them and fall out of love with them. Not typically the most pleasant of experiences especially if we’ve “fallen in love” with this human and now are feeling decidedly un-in love.

The Power of Our Life Force Depends Upon their Grace

Projecting our inner gold gifts us a unique opportunity to advance in consciousness and spiritual development. When we have gifted our psychic treasures onto an unsuspecting victim, there are a myriad of ways this dynamic may manifest.

We might stalk them, for example. Their smile can raise us to heavenly heights, and their frown will hurl us to hellish depths. Every nuance of their actions and expressions are absorbed in minute detail. A quirk of their eyebrow, a slight smile forming at the corner of their mouths, or their silence can affect how we feel that day. The power in our life force seems to hinge on their approval or sanction.

In our culture, a mutual exchange of our inner gold is upheld as the prerequisite for marriage (this is when the inner gold projection falls under the rubric of falling in love). You’ve projected your gold, your deepest inner value, onto the other person. You’ve given it to them to babysit for a while, until you are ready to take it back. For the relationship to succeed, you will have to take it back. Unfortunately, that’s always accompanied with disillusionment.

The treasures return home by way of disappointment. A solid marriage can only prevail on human love, which is different from romantic love, being in love, or loveness.

Our human life, our marriage, is fed by the capacity to love human to human. When we’re in love, we put our gold- our expectations – on the other person, and this process sadly obliterates them from our view.

Projections Must Be Brought Home to Achieve True Relatedness

There is no relatedness between two people in this equation. We are not able to truly see the other person as complete unto themselves. We only see the projection of our own inner gold.

Recently a client confessed that she annoyingly only seemed to fall in love with bad boys. Never the decent, commitment sort of fellows.

I asked her if she’d ever considered buying a motorcycle. She looked at me astounded and said, “YES! I’ve been secretly coveting one of those for years!”

I said, “Do it!! You won’t have such a craving for bad boys because you’ll be giving your inner bad boy space for expression. No longer a need to project him onto another, you’ll find yourself inexplicably attracted to rather ordinary, nice fellows that make great mates and dads. Like you, he’ll be a bad-boy biker at night and a rather square banker during the day.”

Always know that that wondrous feeling of falling in love doesn’t have to last forever to be worthwhile. It may be serving an important purpose. To awaken you to the spiritual riches lying quietly within, sprouting buds and bursting to be realized. Whether lover, guide or mentor, your gold carrier maybe just the right combination to nurture and carry the load until you’re ready. You’ll know when it’s time to schlep your own gold. Your assigned gold carrier has become unworthy and, in all likelihood, has strolled off with hardly a backward glance.

Have a growing, joyous and fulfilling April.

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FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions

Inner gold refers to the hidden potential, wisdom, and brilliance within us. It is often projected onto others before we recognize and reclaim it as our own.

Projection can create illusions in relationships, making us believe another person embodies qualities we actually possess. Recognizing this helps build healthier connections.

Yes! Positive projection allows us to see our own strengths in others, inspiring personal growth. However, reclaiming these qualities is key to self-awareness.

Often, we unconsciously project our inner gold onto those who reflect aspects of ourselves we have yet to embrace. This creates intense attraction and emotional bonds.

Self-reflection, therapy, and personal development help reclaim projected qualities. Recognizing patterns and integrating these traits leads to greater self-acceptance.

When we reclaim our inner gold, relationships shift. We see others more clearly, free from illusion, and develop deeper, more authentic connections.

Are you ready to reclaim your inner gold and step into your true potential? Start by reflecting on your relationships and identifying where projection may be at play. Embrace your brilliance, nurture self-awareness, and build connections rooted in authenticity. Your journey to self-discovery begins now!